35-year-old Mom defends her child after her sister stole her name for her own twins: 'The 3 of them practically share a name'

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  • Mom cuddles with her babies.
  • AITA for still using the baby name I told my sister I was going to use, despite her using a variation of it first?

    I (35F) had my first daughter in September. While I was pre_ ant my sister (38F) was also pre ant with a boy. In reality she was pre ant with twins, a boy and a girl, but thought it would be fun if it was a surprise for everyone.
  • During that time I told her that I planned to name this baby after our mom, Colette, and my husband's mother, Coral, both names start with "Co" and I think "Coco" is an adorable nickname.
  • She told me the name they picked was a surprise and they didn't want to reveal it until the baby was here. Lo and behold her twins are born in August, everyone is super surprised that its twins.
  • She names them Cole and Lettie. I didn't think much of it except that it was really cute and sweet that she clearly named them after our mom.
  • When my daughter was born, I followed through and named her Colette Coral, we almost exclusively call her Coco.
  • My sister is very annoyed that I followed through with the name and brings it up all the time how ridiculous it is that three of them practically share a name. Its also confusing if full names are used, I will admit that. Despite me telling her my entire
  • Two sisters disagreeing on baby names.
  • pre ancy this was the name I planned to use. I even had stuff made with the name! She ensures everyone knows her babies we're born first.
  • Honestly, If she had told. me months ago that she planned to use Cole and Lettie, I probably would've pivoted, but she never said anything. Heck, even if she told me she was using Cole I would've re-evaluated.
  • Currently debating legally swapping Coral and Colette simply to keep the peace, but that feels an awful lot like admitting I'm the as place. in the first So Am I the A ?
  • Hey, this is a fantastic point

    romero0705 Listen, if George Foreman can name all 5 of his sons George and one of his daughters Georgette, I'm sure your set of cousins will be fine. But I do think Coral Colette flows more nicely.
  • Either way NTA. Your sister should've clued you in since she was aware of your plan.
  • This is the truth!

    oCrystal Nta she did it on purpose, that's why she asked and refused to tell hers. Never share your baby names until the baby is born or else you end up with this situation. Now you know for next time?
  • Jazzy404404 Why would you change the name? You need to tell your sister that she knew what you were naming your daughter, and she chose those names anyway. This is the last time you want to hear about it, and you won't be changing the name. She needs to get over it.
  • This is where I fall on the whole debate

    Broken-Ice-Cube NTA I'm confused how Cole, lettie and colette are too similar of names for cousins to have. Honest unless you're saying both her kids. names together without the and in between you could miss the fact they cole-lettie
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